It’s so nice to see and feel the fall season. I have loved pulling my knits and boots out of my closet.
One new item to add to the fall look is this amazing hat from imogene + willie. It makes an appearance at least every other day in my outfit.
Hope you had a lovely Monday.
sweater: JJ Basics (via Von Maur). black skinnies: Forever 21. booties: Urban Outfitters.
It’s August 2014 and it’s safe to say that I’m on the other side of a heartbreak that took me YEARS to occasionally forget. The body is adaptive in that way—protective. It smooths the edges of what once felt impossible and so piercingly sharp. But every once and again a residual truth will surface and I’ll realize there’s more to go—small mountains still to move and the weight of that can press me for a moment. Sometimes the moments pass quickly and sometimes they linger.
I feel it most acutely in routine grocery store trips. That’s weird, right? By standing in an aisle, sorting through my very short grocery list for my small family, the lighting is always so harsh, and the people around usually seem to have more of a purpose than me.
In the years of smoothing the edges my perception and hopes and what I want for my life shifted. Somewhere from within the tangle of that particular heartbreak I stopped trusting that good things do in fact…occur. To other people, surely. But not to me.
It’s so ridiculous, right? Just saying it out loud, it’s so ridiculous. But it’s also true. And what I’m realizing is that I’ve been toting around this particular truth for far too long, totally unaware. Meaning, I’ve let it be true. A self fulfilled prophecy.
But maybe it’s the last threshold. The last little bit to cross.
Because just to give voice to that truth is to dismantle it. To somehow make it less true or to understand that it’s been only me being ridiculous to myself. Making it less important and more part of the past–and the mountains get smaller and the miles less dense.
So I move quickly through grocery stores because after all it’s just food and I can put just as much effort in a meal for 2 as I could for 3.
Jaxson, Newton Neighbor and I are going to hit the road early tomorrow morning for a 7 hour trek to Oklahoma City. Where we will visit my mom (who moved there at the beginning of the summer) and my grandparents.
Nothing beats a little car riding with my boys, a big fat fountain soda, and a little sing-a-long action. (have to practice my next karaoke song for Ellen & Julie).
You can enjoy the playlist I am making as well:
See you next week, Omaha!!
About 4 months ago, I decided to add to my growing design career by becoming a design consultant for 3 Day Blinds. I knew I wanted keep my designer/project manger position with Birdhouse Interior Design but I also wanted to make sure I didn’t leave an ounce of free time on my schedule.
So when I’m not a mom or shopping to find the perfect vintage piece for a Birdhouse client, I’m traveling across the Omaha area filling homes with any type of window treatment their hearts desire.
Obtaining my knowledge of all things 3 Day came in the form of traveling. Places like the Bay Area in Northern California, Colorado, Vegas and then lastly a short stay in Phoenix. Now that I’m home I am a traveling studio, office and sometimes home. I don’t work under a studio’s roof with 3 Day, I literally have all of my samples neatly packed into my little 2009 Sonata Hyundai. Daily rolling up my sleeves and applied my signature aesthetic to hustling my samples from home to home in a pair of heels. (of course)
Please find out more about my new position and all of my offerings here.